She wants a man who is excited about life rather than jaded, positive rather than cynical, impulsive rather than cautious.
You need to show her how desirable you think she is as this is what older women hear less often the older they get.
If you are a man interested in dating older women you need to take a different approach than you have in the past.
Often younger guys try to outmatch the older guy, by pretending to be more experienced, worldly, wisely and even successful than he is.
This is not what an older woman wants from a younger guy.
You need to start now to find someone special, or perhaps consider dating younger men.
You also need to be prepared to think differently about what older men want from a dating relationship.