The relationship apparently continued until March 2012, when Vanessa reportedly found correspondence between the two them. was in the shower, with his phone on the bedside table, when O'Day sent through some "sexy" text messages that Vanessa saw.
Then, after discovering the relationship, Vanessa reportedly confronted O'Day on the phone.
She was also known as a member of a girl band called “Danity Kane”.
It has been known for quite a while already that Aubrey O’Day boyfriend is Donnie Wahlberg.
According to a source in On Thursday, Vanessa filed for divorce; the couple has five children together.
“After 12 years of marriage, we have decided to go our separate ways,” the couple said in a joint statement.
At the end of the day, we tried our best."The lovebirds got back together just days after. News of their brief breakup, "It's very difficult to build a relationship as a celebrity couple and have the personal life and the public come together as one.
We were having a difficult time with all of that, and we've figured out how to be the strongest team that we can be.
“You know I go through ups and downs with relationships and meeting people that I can trust and that are honest people.
So I’ve had a really difficult time with finding those types of people,” she said at the time.
“Yeah I like strong men that usually have big egos …
We both wanted to be together, and we weren't willing to not let that happen.
So, we fought for each other, and we made it through.""Pauly is so different from anything I've ever experienced," she added.