Dudes with hurt egos like to blame their trials on “crazy” chicks.
I’m not saying that hasn’t happened, but if it happening, you’re the crazy one.
I don’t think you’re a bad guy-come ‘on, why would you be reading Fearless Men?
It’s probably that you’re trapped in a cycle of bad decisions. Where the real self-examination is needed is here: are you at least to breathe some new life and energy into the relationship?
If you’re trying to figure out what got you dumped, see if the gents described below might be you. And if a girl is on an endless hunt for something new and exciting, you’re probably not “dangerous” enough to keep it rollin. Except the guys that do have real, deep, jerk problems. If you’re not making a decided effort, then I don’t blame her for being bored. But if you just stay in at night or only take her on movie dates or things you like to do, she’s gonna be bored with you my man.
If she’s not needy and possessive (and I hope she’s not), it’s a lot easier to run the risk of you seeming needy and possessive.
She’ll either want you more or getting dumped will come sooner rather than later (which is a good thing).
If you find yourself avoiding her calls or rarely texting her back, don’t be surprised if you get dumped for not trying hard enough. You want to impress your girlfriend by being the nicest guy on the planet.
Rarely was one of the single reasons above a primary relationship killer. And ultimately, that led to lack of chemistry and the dying of feelings. Here’s one woman’s perspective: “You probably got broken up with because she realized that her interests are different and chemistry just didn’t fit. Whether you were surprised or saw it coming, getting dumped can hurt like hell. What’s most important is picking yourself up and not wallowing in your sorrow. If you keep getting dumped, sorry buddy, but it’s time for some tough love.That doesn’t mean using bitterness to get over someone, but you must choose to move on. If you keep getting dropped like a bad habit, it’s time to take stock because it’s probably you.You never complain, don’t argue, don’t share thoughts that are different from hers, you run from conflict and, god forbid, you ever say “No.” Then, after she leaves your smiley, spineless, whimpering ass behind for another guy, you respond by going way overboard for the next girl you date. Carry yourself with class, manners, and consideration. “Nice guys finish last” is a ludicrous proverb to me, but it didn’t come from nowhere.Consistently sending her flowers for no reason and giving her nightly backrubs. Grow a spine, respect yourself, don’t grovel, and you’ll be a little more likely to end up with a girl that works at it too – and a little less likely you’ll be getting dumped – again.But then the feelings aren’t where you want them to go.After you get to know them more, even though you thought the chemistry was there, but the personalities aren’t meshed as you thought.” -Michelle You may have started dating young, in college, or even later.The thin line between trying too hard and not trying hard enough.It seems to be the same distance between hopeless romantic and stalker level pursuit.That’ll help you create a healthy environment for a relationship to grow, and hopefully, you’ll continue to have a rewarding relationship moving forward and not have to experience getting dumped again! CAR crash footie ace Sergio Aguero is reeling from a split with his pop star lover.