If a guy is talking to you about intimate stuff, that means they feel comfortable opening up to you, which is usually a pretty big deal.
It means even more if you guys sometimes hang out and just talk, and don't even hook up.
Source: i Stock This one is tricky, because even someone who only wants to hook up with you could end up feeling jealous when your attention is on someone else. Do they just get jealous and make a move to show that they're hooking up with you and then let it go? If they seem like they're actually really upset, they probably are, and that probably has a deeper meaning behind it.
For example: I had a FWB thing going on with a guy once, and he would get very jealous if he saw me flirting with someone else... If they just get jealous to the point where they have to show the other person that you belong with them, and that's it, then it's just a control issue. Source: i Stock How does your FWB react when you're upset?
Source: i Stock If your relationship is strictly about hooking up, then there probably isn't a lot of talking involved, aside from some polite conversation before and after.
So, if you and this person are having deep conversations before or after hooking up, that's a good sign that something else is going on.
After all, it can be hard to read those signs when you guys are already pretty affectionate and physical with each other – it can be tough to figure out when the line has been crossed, emotionally, at least.
I promise you, no man will introduce you to his crew unless he’s head over heels for you.If he asks for you opinion on an important matter, he sees you as more than just a hot bod. He seeks your approval, which means he sees you in his life long-term. Most people I know, myself included, would never hang out sober with a hookup buddy. Alcohol serves as the missing spark between your sexual attraction and forgetting the fact that there’s nothing else you have in common.Spending time sober only happens between people who genuinely like each other.But it does count if you two don't have any mutual friends.It's always a good sign to be introduced to someone's friends - especially if you hang out with all of them.Source: i Stock What do you guys do when you hang out?In a ~real~ friends with benefits relationship, you would hang out at odd times, hook up, and go your separate ways.Of course, your FWB could be a genuinely nice person who cares about you, just not in a romantic relationship type of way. But generally, you'll see the difference in the vibes.Source: i Stock This sign doesn't really count if you and your FWB have the same group of friends.Source: i Stock One benefit of having an FWB is that you guys are also allowed to talk to and date other people - that's usually why two people choose to keep things casual, because they don't want to be tied down.So, if neither of you are seeing or talking to other people, that could be a sign that you don't really want to hang out with anyone else.