Lucia: Unless you see her out with a younger man, either in person or on social media, the only way to really find out is to ask her out.Lucia: Well, a Cougar is always looking for “arm candy” in the sense that she wants to date guys who are handsome, not just younger.Finally the relationship may not last if he is still establishing himself in his career or if he wants children, but the woman doesn’t, that can be a deal breaker.Lucia: As there’s no designated “Cougar meeting area”, the top 3 places to meet a Cougar are at work, on dating sites (cougarlife.com, dateacougar.com) and at the gym.Lucia, CEO of The Cougar Club, is a dating and relationship expert specializing in Cougar relationships author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love” and keynote speaker.She has been featured in countless national and international media and has been dubbed ‘The Queen of the Cougar Jungle’.
Additionally they look great and they are in shape, are into having fun, are willing to learn and experiment and have stamina!
However, the way to find out will either be to ask her directly what she’s looking for, or by her actions.
If she doesn’t want to go out with you, and prefers to meet up at either her place or yours, then she’s looking for something casual.
Lastly, if you may be ridiculed by your family, friends, society Lucia: Younger men grew up in a generation where they see a woman as an equal and not some that they need to dominate.
They have a bright eyed, bushy tailed attitude towards dating and are not as jaded as an older man would be, so they are still idealistic when it comes to love and romance.