Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex.Otherwise, date someone your own age (I know, God forbid).[quote]I am most definitely not looking to be a sugar daddy or any kind of daddy for that matter.[quote]...preferably one that isn't promoting a fetish, like silver daddy or bears, etc.?I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.It's just not a reasonable demand..when I dig deeper I see that they are stunted emotionally in some way, and never had that 'perfect boyfriend' when THEY were in their 20's..can't move on from that until they get some young twink to fall in love with them. I meant to add that hooking up with younger guys is a whole 'nother story.We probably used every Living Social coupon available and asked each other every question we could think of and more.
When this relationship had run its course, the heartbreak was different.
I wasn’t caught up in a whatevership or developing feelings too quickly for someone that didn’t deserve it.
Dating was really dating and those who couldn’t deal quickly fell to the side.
It’s not a holding cell for your sexual energy until the right person comes along. Which means it can continue even when you have found someone to love if you haven’t quite accomplished your goal.
At first I wondered would I find someone to agree to a sexless relationship when I could provide no clear ending date.