You don’t want to scare someone off and you do not want to make them feel bad if they didn’t do as much for you as you did for them.
Having said that, let’s face it, it can be a lot of fun creating a very special first Christmas memory.
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A Christmas ornament When you get him a Christmas ornament, you’re saying “Merry Christmas” and nothing else.
The two of you would have eventually gone to the movies, so why not just pay for it now?
Even if he doesn’t use it on you, everyone and their next door neighbor likes movies.
(But seriously, he should use it on you.) A used book Give him a book that you’ve already read and just be like, “You can keep it, actually.” You didn’t spend any money on it but it’s still super thoughtful—but not too thoughtful.
I mean, it was probably like and you originally bought it for yourself, not for him, so it’s just a super laid-back gesture.