They aren’t interested in my career as a professional soccer player, that coming out to Colombian parents was difficult, yet not impossible, or that my Spanish accent sounds like I’m Spaniard. Instead, I get asked a standard set of questions to test my level of “Spanishness”:“Are both of your parents Colombian? Your experience with Latinas is Sofia Vergara, when I look like Ellen and a mop had a baby.
The reality is my father has more indigenous features, like a deep hook nose and darker skin color, whereas my mother is blonde and blue eyed.
By the time we're toddlers, instead of learning the "Hokey Pokey," we're taught how to dance in a rueda de casino.I have super curly, light hair, my Chilean friends pass for Asian.Put 10 Latinas in a line and chances are there will be more physical differences than similarities.But when I dress up, I put on oxfords, a shirt buttoned to the top, and jam out to (insert quirky band featuring an oboe).Presenting our diverse queerness extends past our wardrobe, though; it’s about our political ideals, how we express ourselves artistically, or if we choose to watch Season 4 of Spicy Mama Syndrome If your girl is passionate, it’s because she has worked all her life as a woman, fighting every step of the way to get where she is.All of their parents worked in white collar professions and several owned more than one home or some other kind of significant real estate.So yeah, those kinds of differences can be pretty intimidating to someone whose parents never owned the home they lived in and who is going to school almost entirely on financial aid.2. East Asian beauty standards tend to idealize very thin and pale women such as Chinese actress Fan Bingbing.And it goes without saying, if you enjoy sex with your girlfriend, it’s because you have deep communication, trust, and understand what is pleasing to her.But yes, I also did receive tips from the Mayan gods, so there’s that.By calling her “spicy,” you’re merely perpetuating the stereotype that that’s just how Latina women are naturally without considering individual circumstance.My mother worked hard to bring my sister and me to America.