If you want to successfully seduce a man, you have to realize that behaving like that is going to completely destroy your ability to do so.Before you begin, you have to fully accept that you’re going to have fun and not stress over anything that happens.Have you ever been around someone who was trying really hard to be funny…and everything they said and did reeked of a needy, desperate energy?), but it’s important for you to be clear about why …reason being, one of the biggest obstacles to a successful seduction is trying to seduce someone so you can feel better about yourself.
There’s just no way you’ll be able to effectively seduce a man under that kind of pressure…You’ll just have fun in the moment and enjoy your interactions with him… everything that’s happened in your life, everything that is happening right now. What I’m saying is that you’re always in touch with your internal sense of OK-ness…and outside of the moments you’re with him, you won’t really be thinking about him at all. you can be sad at a given moment and still know that you’re completely 100% OK.For example, maybe you want to seduce a guy into your bed, but the underlying reason is because you don’t really feel attractive, and you think that successfully seducing him will prove that you are.Or maybe you want to get a particular guy to chase you to prove to yourself that you’re worthy of pursuit (because you don’t believe you are). point is, if your goal in seducing a guy is to feel better about yourself, you’re going to be at a considerable disadvantage. Because you won’t be able to be carefree in the seduction…this way, you have your attention available to guide the seduction forward.Moreover, your mood is stress-free, which is a very attractive energy in men and women…They become completely self-absorbed and unable to be present to enjoy their moment-to-moment existence.Every moment of their life becomes a “means to an end,” in pursuit of the next solution to a problem. In order to seduce, you must be OK, happy, and at peace with your life…Which brings me to the ultimate way to be stress-free throughout a seduction… Quiz If you fixate on one guy, you’re setting yourself up for a lot of stress.On the other hand, if you have several desirable options, then you’ll find it quite natural to feel OK no matter what ends up happening with any one particular guy.