However, it does not mean it’s kind, loving or Christ-like for a man to pursue a woman and then pursue someone else at the same time (especially if he had communicated serious interest in her).When courting a woman, a guy will usually choose to not pursue anyone else.You can often see young kids going on "daddy-daughter dates" or "mother-son dates".The purpose of this is to teach the child how to behave in public, how to hold interesting conversation, use good manners, interact appropriately with the opposite gender, etc.What is the difference between a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship involving two Christians and courting? I think one of the key differences can be summed up by a single word: ‘BELONGING’. When I passed by you again and saw you, behold, you were at the age for love, and I spread the corner of my garment over you and covered your nakedness; I made my vow to you and entered into a covenant with you, declares the Lord Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.(Eph -32) Based on this understanding, when being courted, a girl will not see herself as being in a “new category” of relationship.In other words, sex usually happens very quickly during the courtship process.
Sometimes, committed relationships lead to marriage. Sometimes, they break-up realizing that they can't see growing old together.
Rather she will see that she is simply exploring the possibility of marriage with a brother in Christ.
In contrast, on entering a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, a man and women will see themselves as entering a “new category” of relationship.
In today’s world, most women select men based on how much sexual attraction he makes her feel first.
They will take a guy for a “test drive” by having sex with him and trying out a relationship and if it makes her happy, she will stick around.