Try to stay away from situations where it may be hard to say no (such as an empty house or the backseat of a car).It is also helpful to stay sober when with possible partners (as using alcohol or drugs may cloud your decision and judgment).Take time to consider exactly what being abstinent will mean for you.It is also beneficial to plan (in advance) how you will say "no" to sexual activities, or how you can avoid getting yourself into potential sexual situations.
It is helpful to decide in advance what sexual activities (if any) you would be willing to participate in.But ultimately, it all comes down to personal choice. Your physical, emotional and mental health is irreplaceable and we want to encourage you to make the decision that you feel is best.There is no sex safer than no sex, and you deserve to have the best. Your life counts, and you can make a difference in this world.Read the numerous success stories of schools and towns being transformed.Tags: For Teenagers, Abstinence Education Program Suggested by Olivier Reaches 10,000 teens annually, in the areas of NJ and NY, with a message of healthy relationships and character development.Be aware of settings that could potentially challenge your decision to remain abstinent and make a plan on how to avoid these situations.If you find yourself in a compromising situation, say no clearly and mean it.Do your best to follow through with your decision until you are in a situation where you are able to think about it and reassess your decision with a clear head (and no pressure).Many people have told me that understanding your body and knowing ways to keep it healthy is helpful in maintaining your decision of abstinence.Tags: For Teenagers, Conservative Values Organization Suggested by Olivier A thoughtful an frequently-updated blog by a college gal named Angel, who created it to share her experiences and beliefs regarding abstinence, and to develop a large-scale conversation on sex and the rhetoric surrounding chastity.There are so many other personal, social and economical reasons why abstinence is a great idea. We believe that your life counts, and you are a person worth waiting for.